Too often, we think and plan things to do, but we will not take any actions. We also often believe that we can do things, but still we don’t just want to do them, even though we love to do them. However, we often move them to be done later – because – yes, we come up with many different excuses. We have an enormous amount of will to do things and ideas, but for some reason we don’t do them or if we start, we don’t finish them. All too often, we only plan and talk about them, but we forget to act. Of course, we should plan how to do things. It probably took a month to design this website and then I tried things differently for a couple of weeks. Now then, I have been able to do this to the fullest what I love most – to write to you and share my knowledge and insights – all the time, however, I learned to extract and change my website, so that my homepages serve you better. No need to plan 100% ready before you dare to act. Let say 90% is good enough and you can improve it afterwards. That is, we must dare to act, otherwise they will only remain in the planning phase. No goal will be achieved unless action is taken. Remember that this is not about willpower. It’s about that we do things and when you dare to act, things will fall into place. Now I enjoy writing – I still don’t know if anyone will find these writings – I still enjoy the idea that I can help someone. Maybe only one person will read these writings sometime in 2048 and then these stories will become popular. So, I already enjoy being able to act so that somebody can sometime in the future enjoy having some important insight from these stories. When it comes to acting, it’s good to do it with love, that is, to do something we truly care about – I don’t love writing – I love sharing these ideas. Somewhere in my head, I know that these pages will sometime be popular. And I will not put any of these “advertisements” on other pages, but I trust that someone will find these stories and if they think they are good pages. I will probably be sitting with white beard and waiting with one foot already in my grave and thinking that these pages will someday become popular 😊
Diligence means we don’t wait at home for the prince to ride his white stallion to pick us up from our home. We must be ready to work towards our goals. We need to be willing to sacrifice our free time to get things done in order to achieve our goals. We should be interested in acting and ready to enjoy the journey even though the goal brings more gratitude in our hearts.
Always ask before beginning this journey toward these goals whether you are willing to invest your effort in this to achieve it. It is also important to be aware if this really is something that you want to do also in the future. Is this a significant thing to you or do you want it just to show others or to make others jealous or do you love doing it. Usually a life task is something you love to do. It’s usually the kind where you are, or you could get good by practicing – by doing it often enough. I’m not good at writing and probably that’s where my strength is. I don’t know any fine words that only few understands. These are down to earth and simple things because I can’t say it with difficult words. These are short stories – I do not know how to write filler sentences, and these do not need to be scientifically correct, because I am just an ordinary person. I only write what comes to my mind. I hope that therefore also men can read this kind of short stories, which may still give them some insight.
Do things you may not like – for example cleaning – and give your wife joy!