To truly love others, we must be able to love ourselves. Love means we accept ourselves and others as they are. Often, we look at the appearance first, and even if you would be the most beautiful in the universe, you will always find yourself looking for things that you think are ugly or should we say things you don’t like. Other people do not even see them because you are so beautiful, but you focus on it so much that you no longer see your beauty and only see the ugly things (defined by you). So, you focus on negativity. You only see what you are missing, or you think is wrong. Accept them. No matter what you can still accept yourself. Love yourself just as overweighted as you are. You are so much more than your appearance, your intelligence, your weakness, your way of acting – you are the soul. It feels like you are in prison of your body or nature. When you accept you as you are, you don’t have to be different. You’re enough. You are already everything because you are a soul. When you understand that you are a soul, part of a bigger, part of the universe, you accept the little mistakes you have. You have them, you carry them with you, and you don’t have to change them. At the same time, you know that some of them are in your power to change, though you are happy with your life, even if you have those shortcomings.
Many are afraid that others will see your deficiency and therefore they carry a heavy burden and will not notice that every person has their own weaknesses and fears that you will notice. This is because we want to be perfect and yet everyone is incomplete, but at the same time everyone is enough. Souls are just perfect. If you love yourself and you stand with your imperfect body with pride and love, then others will notice it. Many overweighted people love their bodies and are thus outwardly more beautiful than someone who does not love their body, even if they are beautiful. If you love yourself, you give the soul the best living environment and you are glowing love around you. Then you pull people of the same kind towards you.
Those who love themselves, that is, they accept themselves as they are. When you can love yourself, you can accept that other people are incomplete or in your eyes more perfect then you and allow them to be different. It must be remembered, however, that you do not accept killing, etc., but understand that the killers are also souls who, for some reason, have been doing wrong things. There is no need to accept that they act wrongly but understand that they too are souls. Love others, accept them, love yourself and more, because it is the right path to enlightenment, that is, you can be more than love. The only thing you should compete in is true unconditional love. Love others means you can let them be just like they are, and you want to help other people to love each other. You want to give support and love to others as well as allow them to be themselves.
Be in love and beyond!
