Your own value is your own thought of yourself. Not the opinion of others. Not what the world thinks of you. But what you think of yourself. Do you love yourself? Are you fine with yourself? What do you think about yourself? Do you value yourself? Only you can determine your own value. Why not value yourself very high? Why aren’t you perfect? We are all incomplete. Even though you are incomplete, you still have your own value. I don’t know why people think they aren’t as valuable as others. You can choose to see yourself as a precious person and soul. You are valuable in every way. Good self-worth means that you accept yourself exactly as you are and that you know yourself. You are familiar with you. You can observe yourself without judgment. Be proud of yourself.
If you can be proud of yourself just the way you are. Not arrogant, but you accept yourself as incomplete. You dare to say what you really think. You know where you are not so good, and you dare say it and speak about it. You know your strengths and get better at them. You are truly genuine, and you love yourself.
Good self-esteem means that you know about your weaknesses and that you are fine with them. When someone says you are bad at math, you can say with ease and pride that it’s true. What it means is that it is not up to others to decide your own value. When self-esteem is good, and self-worth is good, self-worth is like the halo above you. When others try to shoot at you with arrows, they will hit your body and bounce off without hurting your own value. No matter how hard they try, they can’t make you feel bad. We are as precious as others – human dignity – even soul worth – our own value cannot be compared to others because we all have a human dignity that is not better, worse or as good as others. It’s dignity and it’s great. Your own value should be your dignity. So be proud of yourself – you are a soul – you have your own value, which is human dignity, and no one else defines it. Your own value does not change even though others are trying to destroy it intentionally. We humans are mean to each other – even adults – why? Because we want to be better than others. Everyone has dignity – the value of the soul – we are all important. It’s important to help each other to feel good – to be happy.
Your own value is exactly what you decide. Good self-esteem comes from the fact that you dare to be yourself. You accept yourself as you are. And don’t let others determine your own value or what you should be.
Keep your own value high – don’t let other decide it for you.
